KEKK Wiersma Family Photo, 2011

KEKK Wiersma Family Photo, 2011
New Family Photo-Nov 2011

Thursday, March 31, 2011

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Hi all !

Here are a few hot of the press photos of Kijin !

Yesterday he slept sooooo much ! ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ! He had a 4 hour afternoon nap, then went to bed again at 7:00pm- and up at 6:00am !!!!!!

Sometimes he falls asleep on the floor in our family room, in the middle of playing. He really loves this small quilt one of my great aunts made for me years ago. Sometimes he puts his head down , smells it and lays down on it. I think this is the same colour and texture of blanket he must of had in his foster home and or the baby carrier / Mei Tai? carrier that he was carried around in? by his foster mother.


Today I took him to my work office. First day out in the car ourselves ! He loves the car seat, looks around him constantly then falls asleep ! The office loved him of course, just observed the many people coming to check him out. A few smiles for the clerks then off we went !


He napped about 1.5 hours, for I had to get him up for his Doctors apt. He did not like that !

The Appointment went well. It was just a meet and greet the Doctor and to weigh and measure him as well. Then off we went to pick up Kyler from school. Another show of people checking him out, since Kyler has told them sooooo much about his new baby brother !

WHEW ! He also met his Grandma and Grandpa Wiersma today ! What a busy day !!!


He is doing really well. It will be a week tomorrow since we have had him forever. HE has been through a lot this week ! WE are adjusting as well....Ed is back to work, Kyler in school, and I am home with Kijin trying to do what I can around his schedule at the moment :) I get a 9 month paternity leave off- I am due back to work just before Christmas time. I will enjoy every minute of it being with Kijin :)


Our first family road trip will be on Saturday. We are off to Kitchener to celebrate my grandmothers 90th birthday !!


Goodnight all !


Karen



Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Home with Kijin



Hi all !!! WE are home with Kijin and trying to get our sleep and time back ! Ugh ! I'm soooo tired ! We are getting better though !

Sometimes Kijin is pretty close to his schedule and sometimes he is way off ! He is sleeping a lot though--when he sleeps we try to sleep or take shifts keeping up with him when one of us needs to sleep! He is drinking and eating well. Loves to play with Kyler when he comes home from school ! I have taken him on a walk each day and so far he has fallen asleep as soon as I hit the sidewalk ! He needs his "soothie" in his mouth every time he needs to sleep. Once it falls out, he is up and wondering where it went, for awhile we were up every 2 hours in the night because he keeps popping it out of his mouth ! Oh well, as long as all of us are getting some sleep, and he is happy , we are not complaining !!! We hope by the end of the week, he will have his days and nights in order and Ed and I are back on our own time zone !

The first picture was taken in Seoul- We took him out for a walk to the POSCO STEEL office building. This building was awesome. Inside the lobby, were about 100 TV Monitors hanging from the ceiling, playing a video over and over again with office music. The TV's were placed all together in the shape of 3 Christmas Trees !!! The centre of this building was a HUGE indoor water fish tank. It was about 2 floors tall. Beautiful sea fish , sharks, and turtles were swimming in this tank right in the middle of this large office building!!! It was about a 30min walk from our Guest Office room and it was a great place to show Kijin ! He stared at those fishes for a long time.

Also on the main floor of this building was a fantastic museum- on what POSCO STEEL has been working on for the past years, and what they are working on for the future ! Little miniture sculptures of what they plan to build in space, on water and placing all public transit above the highways. Amazing !!!

And of course the 2nd picture of Kyler finally holding his new baby brother Kijin ! So happy Kyler is !!!! Kijin took to him right away ! Kyler will be a great help- he still insists he will NOT help us change him, but will play with him and feed him ! :)

Right now, Kijin went to bed at 7:00pm--We hope he will sleep at least 8 hours, up a bit to play then back down to bed. Poor guy could not hold up his head anymore. He starts to put his head down on the floor , closes his eyes and falls asleep. He is also teething- biting on those fingers and putting everything in his mouth.

Well, now that I have a few moments, I can blog this stuff ! I will keep at it as long as I can :)

I am taking Kyler to get new shoes ! Yeah !! I get to finally get out for a drive !!! Shopping !!

LOL--

Talk to you later !

KEKK Wiersma !!


Sunday, March 27, 2011

Seoul- Day 7- Seoul toToronto!

Hi all ! Our day started off really early in the morning. Everyone woke up at5:00am to get ready, fed and packed for we we needed to head out the door for 6:00 am to get to the bus to take us to INCHEON Airport.Our flight time was for 10:00 am. We put Kijin in the small stroller once again and with all our luggage and headed down to the lobby. One of the weekend doormen helped us walk with our luggage up the street to the R. Hotel ! Perfect ! What a nice man ! Now before I move on, I wanted to explain about another boarding option anyone can take here downtown Seoul before flying out of the airport which is 1 hour away. This HUGE building is located downtown Seoul. You can purchased flight tickets here as well is check in to your flight. There is a luggage claim , a customs department as well as Immigration. ITs called CALT. It's an advanced common use passenger technology for airline check in counters at the City Aiport Logis and Travel (calt ). So if you took this route, you do all your checking in, you take the bus to the airport, go right by all the lines and basically board your plane with no hassels !!! This is soooo cool and so well advanced why can't Toronto do this???? WE were impressed !!!!


This was an option we could take or just take the bus immediately to the airport and do it the old fashion way. We took the old fashion way !!


So off we went on the bus to the airport. Kijin sat on our laps, took it all in then near the end of the bus trip started to snooze. We got to the airport---wow it was busy !!!! No wonder CALT was another option !! Oh well.....How are we going to do this? A stroller, 3 large suitcases, and carrying some of our purchases ?? We found our way to Korean Air-Toronto boarding- it took hardly an hour , since it was nicely organized considering how many people were at this airport !!!! We booked a bulk head seating with a baby bassinet.


Once on the plane- they showed us our seating--and attached this brown bassinet baby bed to the wall in front of our seats. This fits for about a baby who is 1 years old or so. This was neat. I have never seen this before !! We were unsure if Kijin would fit in it our use it !!! WE will find out I guess. !!! I fed Kijin his bottle, and he fell asleep while making our way into the air- this was a blessing !!! He slept for about 30minutes and woke up with smiles for everyone on the plane. He was a popular boy on the plane ! HE really did well ! Ed and I kept him occupied for about 4 hours or so ,then he had enough ! Started to fuss, so we played with him and walked him around the plane. I finally got him to sleep and put him in the bassinet ! Whew ! Another blessing !!! He was sleeping and fits into the bassinet !!!!! Yeah !!! 2 hours later, the seat belt light comes on. WEll apparently Kijin CANNOT sleep in the bassinett while this is happening?????? Really??? But he was so secured in this thing and he was barely moving !!! ??? Nope--gotta take him out and hold him until the seat belt light gets turned off !!! UGH!!!! Ed got him out, he was starting to wake, looked around and basically fell asleep again ! Thank goodness !! SO all 3 of us got a bit of a snooze until he woke up again, looking for food. ! IT was now only 4.5 hours into the plane ride--we had 6 hours to go !!!!!!


HE did not fall asleep again--he was fussy- tired, cranky, but did really really well. Ed and I once again had to hold him,and keep him occupied or stroll around in the plane to keep him happy. WE did not let anyone hold him really...maybe 2 of the attendants for not very long, for we wanted to Kijin to rely on us and get use to us. This was a great bonding time , if we could do it...holding him throughout the 13 hour plane ride !!! UGHHHHH the plane ride was soooooooooo long coming home !!!! The food was yucky !! The snacks were ok--but the 2 meals we were served was really gross ! WE may be picky eaters, but the food was on the plane in the warmers for many hours, and all they offered were 2 fish dishes ! Working in a health department now for 5 years, you learn a few things of do's and don'ts of serving and preparing food. REally??? They fed us fish, or seaweed soup !!! UGH !!! We took the plates anyways, since we were STARVING and ate the bun or fruit ! They actually still serve peanuts on the plane too...I was really surprised about this ! ? What about those who have deathy allergic reactions to the peanuts or the fish?? WE really don't know ourselves if Kijin is allergic to peanuts yet !? Then too top it off, Kijin and I spilled the seaweed soup onto Eds lap !!!! OOOPPPSSSS !!!!!


WE finally landed !!!!!! YEah !!!! Kijin fell asleep !!!!! Got our luggage, went through customs and Immigrations with no problems or hassels--this was great !


Grandad Marshall was ready to pick us up !!! He took pictures for us !!!Kyler and Nana were at his last hockey game for the finals !!! They will see us at the house !!!


Kijin did not mind the car seat, within moments of the moving car, he was asleep again ! Poor guy was sooooo tired ! We landed at 10:40 am---but really it was around 11:00pm hours for us coming from Seoul !!! He did sooooo welll on the plane !!!!!! A trooper !!!! Ed and I were exhausted !!!!!!!!!!!! No sleep on the plane, and holding Kijin and walking around the plane for many hours done its toll !!!


WE finally arrive home :) Kijin wakes up and slowly takes in everything around him ! I showed him around the house, his room, and many new toys....not long, he was a bit upset and sooooo tired !!! Kyler and Nana finally came home ! Kyler won both the games in his tournament and scored 2x !!!!! Kyler loves his new brother !! Kijin took to him with no problems...lots of smiles and a playing partner !!!!!!! Many pictures taken.....yes...i have yet to download some.................. we feed him and then mom and Kijin had to take a nap ! My head was spinning ! It felt I have been up for 24 hours--in the plane.....My whole body was so tired--JET LEG !!! Yuck ! Kijin and I slept for 4 hours- had a great nap, woke up for dinner, and now it was time to try and keep him up so he would sleep in the night for us....


Well its now 3:44 am on Monday March 28th. He fell asleep around 8:oopm on Ed watching TV-we put him in his new room and crib--out like a light ! With his soothie in !!! HE is still sleeping !!!! I hope he adjusts well--so far soooooo good !!!


All in all, it was a good but long trip home ! Once again for those who will be taking the trip--just be prepared for anything ! WE packed Kijin's spare outfits, food, his toys and tried to keep him on the same feeding schedule. He did use the bassinet, but not very long...just remember, once that seatbelt light comes on, and if the baby is in it, you have to take him out of it. But the bassinett also provided us a makeshiftshelf, so we loaded it up as much as we could to keep the floor space clear in front of us to get up and walk around with Kijin. :)


I will do my best once again to keep blogging while trying to catch up on sleep and plan out our days ! We still have a lot of paperwork and home stuff to do--but we will get through it all ! Kyler starts school again today--after a 2 week March Break ! HE will have some exciting news to tell his classmates today !!


I am getting tired and hungry again--ugh !! Kijin is still sleeping--better catch some zzzzzzz ;s !!!


Thanks again for everyones emails and comments and phone calls !! WE will keep ya posted !!!


Karen, Ed, Kyler and Kijin= KEKK signing off from home- Pickering , Canada !!!!!


Saturday, March 26, 2011

Seoul Day 6- Day 2 with Kijin


Hi all !


Today was Day 6 for us, the final full day in Seoul South Korea! Ed and I enjoyed touring around Seoul, and learning about Kijin's birth country. Of course the whole high-light of this amazing trip was to come and take Kijin home with us :)

Day 2 with Kijin was a good day. We took another walk earlier this morning and another one in the evening with him in our front pouch carrier ! He was very content, just enjoying the fresh air ! We are just packing and getting ready to leave very early in the morning. We hope Kijin's feeding and sleeping schedule will last us until we get home to Canada. !
Today we bought some Korean children and Korean cook books from the Hospital and dropped off our gifts to the doormen and for the nurses who look after the babies until they can be placed in a foster home. Thank you for taking good care of us !!!!
We enjoyed our stay here at the Guest House ! We did not see any other families staying here- but for those who are coming, good luck and have a great trip !
Thanks for following our blog up to this point ! I will post more pictures once I get home !
See u in Canada !!!
Karen , Ed and Kijin signing out from Seoul, South Korea

Friday, March 25, 2011

Seoul-Day 5 Getting to know baby Kijin







Hi all ! Day 5 , Friday March 25th, 2011 started off as a beautiful day ! A bit chilly but getting much warmer. I saw snow come down late in the night. A beautiful sight , when its coming down above the mountains!!! Today was the day we will be getting Kijin forever. So nervous and very excited !!!!!!

We headed out for a coffee at the Starbucks. Its just around the corner and they are everywhere ! Same decor inside and a relaxed setting as in Canada. We also bought mugs here for the 4 of us. It wasn't long until we had to head up the the hospital, 7th floor for our 10:00am appointment.

Right at the top on the 7th floor we ran into Kijin and his foster mom on their way to get a physical from the doctor :) Our social worker met with us there too and told us they will be right back, and to please wait in their office.
Not much longer, they met us in the office. We had to do some paperwork first, meet the Director of SWS, and then they presented us with beautiful keepsake gifts for Kijin which was the Korean Flag, and a keepsake box. I was then given Kijin to hold while they went over his schedule and gave us the items his foster family provided for him and the things we sent to him from Canada. They gave us his bottles, formula , diapers, soothie and food snacks to last us until we had to leave Canada. This was wonderful !!!!!!!
Then it was time for us to go. We parted at the elevator. We thanked them all profusely , shaking hands and hugging them as well. Ed was holding Kijin, for I had the 3 bags full of his belongings and food. Into the elevator we went, waving good bye for the last time ! Off we went to our SWS Guest house room which was about 4 doors down.
Here , we started to play with Kijin, showing him his new surroundings and took many pictures !!! It did not take too long for Kijin to realize that we were not familiar to him and he started to get upset. So we feed him, he fell asleep, napped a bit then woke up to my face and did not what he saw ! Some tears and sad faces, it took him awhile but then he got use to us and started to play with the toys we brought and got happier as the day went on. We took him for a brisk walk around the block, got some air and headed back to our room for dinner. HE is a good eater, loves to snack on cookies and fruits. The hard part was for us to keep him up until 10:oopm !!!! For his last feeding then bed !! Both Ed and I were tired, but we were able to hang on until 9:00pm ! Gave him his bottle and then he was happy and wanted to play !!!! LOL !!!
We turned off the lights, put him in the playpen, and then he just could not get comfy to fall asleep. I picked him up, rocked him to sleep and presto !!!! He was asleep !!! 10:00pm right to about 6:30am !!!!! Now we will begin day 2 of being with Kijin. We will see what the day will bring...............!!!!!
Karen and Ed and Kijin signing out from Seoul






Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Social Welfare Society , Inc www.sws.or.kr


The Seoul Social Welfare Society works on adoption which connects the children to families full of love, and conducts rehabilitation and welfare services for those who have special needs and nowhere to go. This organization does many more things for their community and overseas. Ed and I are currently staying in their "Guest House" on the 7th floor. It is a place for Korean children who are being adopted overseas and their adoptive parents together can relax in comfort while staying in their motherland Korea.
There is also a famous rock out front of the doors. ( we did take a picture of this..have yet to later download some of our pictures ) Every day, Ed and I go up and down the stairs to the 7th floor to our room. On the way up, on every floor, there are beautiful full size photos of Korean famous people holding newborn babies ! Very cute !! There are 2 very nice doormen who try and speak English and assist us in any way they can. We have brought gifts for them from Canada. ( Maple syrup and chocolates ) We will be giving them their gifts some time today :)
If you would like to know more about this organization and where we are staying, check out their website ! www.sws.or.kr Karen and Ed, signing out from Seoul

Seoul- Day 4

Hi all !
Day4 for us started bright and early !! So we decided to walk some more and head to the Bongeunsa Temple. This temple is very beautiful and a very nice experience to see it. It was so quiet, so early in the morning. It is one of Korea's most traditional Buddhist temples built under the name of Gyeonseongsa. We took many pictures and felt we needed to be quiet and respectful of our surroundings. Many people came to pray and bow to their Buddhist Gods. The picture below is the Main Temple ( Daewoongjeon) It is the most important temple of Bongeunsa and the centre of all religious activities. The Korean's are mostly Christians here and many believe in the Buddhist as well.

Since the CoEx Mall was right across the street from the Temple, we decided to hang out, eat and do some more shopping. Ed bought a lovely Tea Set and we found the popular Porogo? childrens toys - trucks and cars for Kijin - the only place we could find these toys was in the Aquarium Gift shop.

Now it was time walk back to our Guest House !!! So once again , we find ourselves, having a much needed rest since we have walked many miles today !!!!